Should You Get an Unweaned Parrot?
October 17th, 2007Chet

Rose Breasted Cockatoo
When shopping for a baby parrot, it’s not uncommon for you to be given the option to purchase an unweaned baby so you can finish the hand feeding. The seller may claim that a stronger bond will be formed with the bird this way, and may even offer you a break on the price. Sometimes, the younger the baby, the better the discount. It’s tempting. Watching a baby parrot grow and flourish under your care is surely satisfying and can add a special dimension to the relationship–when all goes well. But what if it doesn’t? Is this a chance you’re willing to take when the health and perhaps the life of the bird is at stake? I used to think that hand feeding your own parrot wasn’t a bad idea. Now I’m against it in most circumstances. Having talked to too many people that would have been better off had they waited, I’m convinced the risks far outweigh the benefits.
As far as the hand feeding procedure goes, it’s not that hard to learn. You mix the formula to the right consistency and temperature, offer it to the baby in a spoon or syringe and he’s supposed to do the rest. Then you wait a while and do it all again. Sounds simple enough. Lots of people with parrots also have kids, and probably feel confident in their ability to feed an infant, even if the infant happens to have feathers. But every year, baby parrots suffer from crop burns, stunting, infections and other serious problems because of technical mistakes.
Whether it’s too hot, too cold, too thick, or too runny, if the formula’s not just right, things can go wrong. A baby with a strong feeding response can gobble up food that’s way too hot and not even realize he’s burned. Or he may aspirate on food that’s too runny. Feeding a baby parrot is different from feeding a baby person, and it’s more complicated than just preparing the formula correctly. Baby parrots often do things that tax the patience of the most experienced hand feeders. A novice usually won’t know how to handle the situation if it doesn’t go smoothly. Maybe help from the person you bought the bird from is just a phone call away, but what if it’s not? Besides, it’s not just about the food. You can prepare each meal perfectly, serve it with no difficulties whatsoever and still end up with major problems.

Camelot Macaws
The hand feeding process isn’t merely a physical responsibility. You’re not just giving nutrition to a growing parrot’s body. You’re also nurturing a developing mind. You’re giving comfort, security and affection to an animal that is completely out of his natural element. He’s looking to you to teach him everything. But he’s a bird and you’re not. There’s going to be some confusion for him, and there are going to be challenges for you. To raise a well-adjusted, well-socialized parrot is a balancing act of providing attention and fostering independence, of environmental stimulation and quiet time, of limitations and permission. Good experienced hand feeders are more likely to know how to perform this balancing act. They’re also more likely to spot trouble and be able to handle it. If you don’t know what you’re doing, you won’t always know when something’s wrong or what to do about it. As your baby weans, the balance is even more important. Mess up the weaning process, and you’ll have to call someone like me even though your bird’s only a baby.
So why take these risks in the first place and gamble with your parrot’s future? To get your bird cheaper? Ugh! Not cool. Don’t support someone who discounts unweaned babies. Save up a bit longer and find someone with more respect for birds and for you. What about the idea that your bird will love you more? It’s a popular myth, but that’s all it is. A baby parrot is capable of forming multiple bonds regardless of who hand fed him, so don’t worry about that. Be patient. Find a quality breeder, pet store or hand feeder and let them raise the baby right. Let them keep him for you until he’s ready. He will be worth the wait.
Written By Parrot Behavior Specialist: Kim Bear










So what do you do if you have already fallen for the naive arguements and got two baby cockatiels and hand fed them and weaned them and socialized them and then got a full time job?. My cockatiel Raya now bites although she didn’t used to, I do spend time with her and Moe still daily and so do the kids but even though she obviously still wants the attention and very vocally asks for it, she bites. She comes willingly out of her cage and likes to be petted but then seemingly without reason bites. If I put her down at all she then bites when I try to pick her back up. I am frustrated and could use your advise.
I dont see why not your can still create a bond, what about adopting an older bird thats already got a bond with previous owner ? Can still create just as strong a bond.
hey chet I’ve been follower of your work for some time, and i just had a couple of questions for you regarding weening. I’ve been working with a variety of parrots for the past 6 months (I bird sit 4 days a week for a private flock of abused birds) and i finally decided to get my own. I also work at a pet store so i contacted our breeder for several weeks i finally decided on a 10 week old sun conure. I was a little hesitant weening the bird from formula to a normal diet over the first 2 weeks of our time together, but so far things have been great. i grew up hand feeding birds, however this would be my first time hand feeding a parrot. its been ten days and i feel like things couldnt be going better hes been eating and experimenting with all types of food and hasnt been begging except for his evening meal. Ok so, hes being hand fed by both me and my roommate, who plays with him all day when im at work. He gets new experiences daily, including trips to the park and my aviary where he was recently introduced to the older birds. hes has all approved toys and materials, and the bond that hes already formed with several people is amazing. any advice or anything you think i might be missing in this vital stage?